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Being Uncomfortable with Love

The biggest reason we are uncomfortable with love is FEAR.

Stop fearing loss.

A common reason for not being able to receive love is a prior experience of losing someone you loved, whether it was from death, a break-up, or for some other reason that has scarred you. If you spend all of your life pushing aside love given to you on the off-chance that the person offering it might withdraw it, you will always feel cynical and unsure, which is not a comfortable or happy place to be. Instead, embrace the love that they are offering and go with the flow, expecting those who offer you love to stay around.

Breaking the Love block is to learn to Love you.

This might be the hardest step of all but if you don’t love yourself that much, receiving love is impossible because you don’t believe that you deserve it. If this is the case, start working on why you can’t love yourself so well, including reading 30 Days to Freedom Becoming Authentic and practicing the art of meditation to help you explore these issues. Remember that every person is special and that you are very deserving of love.

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Top 3 reasons why woman over 40 are having the best sex of their lives!

#1 Self Love

My #1 rule is “Self-love is the Best love” Being older you have lived a good amount of life and learned some lessons.  Most women over 40 are self-assured and confident.  They know who they are. Nothing opens your soul more during love making then feeling comfortable…with yourself and your partner.

#2 You take care of yourself

The body affects the mind and the mind affects the body. Keeping your body fine is something you do well. You are eating right and getting daily exercise.

#3 You love to have sex

Not only do you have a rich desire, also you have great partner. Together you are moving mountains of emotional baggage’s and building power empires together.

Here are a few other tips to keep you going for years to come

Keep your expectations

When you seek pleasure you will find it. Always enter a sexual experience expecting to be pleased. Because you understand that pleasure comes in many forms, from intriguing conversation to shape shifting orgasms, keep your mind open to how you receive pleasure. Remember to be grateful for all you have received .


And… Breathe

Release and let go with your inner voice

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Are you living your dreams?

or are you just hoping for the best.

My dream is to help others discover the power of love. If you are among my friends/ supporters/ doubters and you dream of finding love, having love, understanding love and you’re not sure if, when and or how…allow me to help you. Allow me to guide you to an unlimited source of love. Don’t wait, don’t hesitate. Love has never been calling you so powerfully as it is call you right now in this moment.

Let’s get you past the tears, past the hurt, past the pain. Let’s march into a new realm of living. Let’s take the top of your life so that it can be free to breathe.

Take action now Post a comment. Say “I want to LIVE”

Let’s get you to the path of faith, hope and love and the greatest among these is LOVE!!!

You have been guided to this place in your life. Looking for that sign, that calling, that time. The time is now. Your life will not change if you don’t make changes. You have to decide RIGHT NOW if you going to send the next half of this year having the same experiences. Know one thing for sure and that’s my dream.

I have a life whole full of love and hope. Knowing what death feels like, depression, sickness, fear, worry and doubt. With certain steps I found love and peace that passes all understanding.

Bad things happen to good people all the time. How you handle it determines how far you rise in life, take this time because there may not be another chance like this to climb out of your situation and into an unique promise.

GET STARTED NOW!!! Post a comment. Say “I want to LIVE”


Love Always,

Maybe not you but someone you know is failing. they are failing at life, at love, at living their dreams. I make a compelling argument to change however lighting the path is only my purpose… walking the path is yours.


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What’s your reason?

Every day you rise, work, complain and try to enjoy some kind of life but why. What is the reason that you do what you do every day. Many quickly say my children are my reason or my families in general are why many work so hard. Those reasons are great however over time will lose their fire and leave you regretting your dedication.

Instead of looking for some outside source to motivate you to greatness, look with yourself to find the key to unlocking the wolf within. Let your own drive be the spark that drives you to achieving your greatest accomplishments.

When you pull for the unlimited resource within yourself you will have an endless drive of passion for what you do. When it comes from you there will be nothing that will stop you from achieving your life’s purpose.

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