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Top 3 Things Women do Wrong when Giving Head

Top 3 Things Women do Wrong when Giving Head

  1. Inhale on the approach

Most women, for some reason, take a deep breath in when they get ready to give head. They think they’re INHALING his penis. No! You’re sucking. If you notice your shoulders go up and your jaw closes.  When it comes to giving head you should EXHALE. When you breathe out your shoulders fall down and your jaw opens up. You increase your mouth capacity by 33%.  The more you can get in the more he’ll love it.


  1. Not using tongue

What do you do with your tongue when you’re giving head? Many don’t even think about it. We spend most of our time trying to get things out of the way. Well when you stick out your tongue you create space within your mouth, as well as a sensation in his shaft that will drive him mad. The increased wetness allows you to make wonderful sound effects.


  1. Wrong Attitude

I cannot stress this enough. You have to enjoy giving head. Your personal attitude about it must be positive. The more joy you find in doing it, the more enjoyable the experience will be. It is a complete waste of your mouth miles (very suck is a mile) and his penis time. Having the right mental attitude about fellatio is what sets you apart from others. Learning how to find joy in giving head take passion and commitment.

With over 30 years of Fellatio experience, Nikeema have sucked her far share and have learned some things. Though our experiences are not unique and we all are in search for the answers, some have questions about how they can make the experience more enjoyable. Nikeema has found the answers and shares them in her Art of Fellatio class all across the country.

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The best organic solutions to intensify your orgasm

Here are the best ORGANIC ways to intensify your Orgasm.

So many women today are having sexual experiences with no climax or achievement of pleasure. Sex is dull, boring and you’ve quietly settling for unsatisfying and disappointing encounters. Having an orgasmic experience during sex is what I call an Universal Truth, something that is absolute. Orgasms should be rich, powerful and consistent. They should impact your daily thoughts and motivate you to new heights. Striving for a fuller orgasmic experience is okay. However in today’s world, toxic creams and unknown foreign objects just don’t cut it. Today’s woman seeks for natural remedies to improve orgasmic bliss.

Here are a few organic ways you can help your body intensify your orgasm.

  • Water (Hydration)
    • Water is the key to life. Our bodies are made up of 80% water however our consumption of the substance leaves many in a chronic state of dehydration. The orgasm is like water, it’s the flow of energy. Having a rich current of water flowing through your body allows for your orgasm to move easily and flow smoother making them more powerful and intense.
  • Yoni Steaming
    • Yoni steams are an old, respected treatment for women used by traditional healers across the globe to cleanse the uterus. This powerful remedy is known to lessen pain, bloating and exhaustion associated with menstruation. It can also be useful in treating uterine fibroids, ovarian cysts, uterine weakness, uterine prolapse, endometriosis, vaginal tears or episiotomy, chronic vaginal/yeast infections, hemorrhoids, and dark purple or brown blood at the onset or end of menses. Using this ancient practice will clear the way for a powerful orgasm.
  • Kegels
    • The muscles around and below the pelvic area plus several layers of muscles stretched between your legs up to your hip bones need to be worked out. Life’s occurrence such as pregnancy, childbirth, and being overweight can weaken vagina and anus muscles. Exercising and strengthen the muscles around the pelvic floor, which supports the bladder, rectum, uterus, and vagina will not only progress your health but also revitalize your sexual sensation. Exercising your pelvic floor muscles just 5 minutes, 3 times a day will make a difference to your orgasm.

Even the fittest, most detoxed, strongest women can still have unsatisfying sexual experiences. How I can drink a gallon of water a day, steam my Yoni, and do 100 crunches { How is it that I can be in the best physical shape of my life and still have a disappointed sexual experience? How it is a chronic dehydrated, overweight woman with an unhealthy lifestyle have some of the best orgasms of her life? Simply put…

All these outside solution don’t address the inside problem. Sure you can drink water, steam and exercise but if you lack a true understanding of your own sexual desires you will continue to be disappointed sexually. The best way to develop a strong connection to your orgasm is through meditation.

Meditation is not a technique but a way of life. Meditation means a cessation of the thought processes. It describes a state of consciousness, when the mind is free of scattered thoughts and various patterns. The observer (one who is doing meditation) realizes that all the activity of the mind is reduced to one.

Who you are inside is a direct reflection of who you will be outside. Your sexlife will remain the same if you remain the same. Though meditation you can discover truths about yourself. You will uncover the source of your sexual desires. Meditation allows for you to confront the fears associated with a weak sexlife. It answers the questions of lack and helps you to forge into a better, prosperous way of living. For me through meditation, each day lends to different thoughts. You deserve the best that life has to offer, push yourself to see past any situation and into a clearer understanding. You’re capable of creating a reality beyond your wildest dreams.


  • Seek out a quiet place
  • Make sure you have a comfortable, straight back chair, or sit with crossed legged on the floor
  • Sit quietly for at least 20 minutes
  • Take a few minutes to clear your mind
  • Take regular breaths
  • Clear your mind and concentrate on your breathing
  • Relax with every breath

When meditation is first tried, you can easily become distracted and lose sight as to why you’re even doing this. A practice like mediation used to center your thoughts and quiet any outside influence is essential to a Rockstar Sexlife. In a state of awareness is where this orgasmic connection can take place; the place where you will find total sexual satisfaction. This intimate meditation should be done every day to allow for a connection to you and your desires. This peaceful relationship between you and your inner self will allow for you to be at one with your intentions. By designing this level of intimacy in your life daily you will propel yourself closer to a Rockstar Sexlife. 10-20 minutes a day to clear your mind and get grounded to your desires is all you need.

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Would you make a great Life Partner

Just a question to ask yourself. Would you make a good life partner.

5 things to being a good life partner.

1. You partner must want for nothing.

The idea of wanting is something Author Neale Donald Walsch talks about in is book, “Conversations with GOD.” He said that GOD doesn’t desire for you to want, rather he commands that you must HAVE. When you partner has knowledge of your true emotions for them, they will quickly realized they HAVE all that they desire.  As a life partner you are to GIVE all that you HAVE to your partner. Its that simple your love, your time and your attention.

2. Take good care of your partner.

They say food is the way to a mans heart. They were right. A great partner will have the ability to feed their partner not only food but wisdom and knowledge. You have to pick up where your partner drops off. A great partner becomes the personal assistant, they become the gatekeeper of secrets. Its bigger than having their back is about having their heart.

3. Accept your partner as they are.

Your partner comes with faults, demands and expectations. Once you become aware of them. You have to make the choice to accept than or not. By accepting your partner for who they’re, you make room for them to love you even more. The moment when someone feels cornered and forced to change they will defend themselves at all cost. A great partner is open and allowing of their partners freedom of expression. You wouldn’t want someone to judge you and your ways?

4. Know what you deserve.

A great partner has no trouble finding value in their partner. They know the greatness of the gift given. They measure the blessing of their partner. If your partner doesn’t add value you to your life and you if you can’t see, touch, taste or feel this from your partner… leave. Stop wasting your time with someone who doesn’t excite you or move you to be a better person.

5. Dream with them

Take time out daily to see the future with your partner. Take five minutes to talk about what you both see and desire for your future lives together. Whether is moving to a new city for a new job or opening a new business, holding visualizations daily will bring you closer together.


What are some other qualities that can make you a great life partner. Leave a comment below.