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Adventures in Awesome Living
by Sunil Bali, Chief Energy Officer
I was at a dinner party with some medics yesterday, when the conversation turned to stress in the work place.
It transpires that the waiting rooms of doctor’s surgeries are overflowing with stressed out managers and executives who complain of too much work and too little time.
Whether you’re Superman or Wonder Woman, there comes a time when you have to take your cape to the cleaners and slow down before putting it back on.
I do nothing and then I do something. But it’s taken years of investigating idleness in all its forms to be able to achieve this. My discipline is borne out of concerted study of idleness – Will Self
You do not need to leave your room. Remain sitting at your table and listen. Do not even listen, simply wait, be quiet, still and solitary. The world will freely offer itself to you to be unmasked, it has no choice; it will roll in ecstasy at your feet – Franz Kafka
To do nothing at all is the most difficult thing in the world – Oscar Wilde
An idle mind is a questioning, skeptical mind. Hence it is a mind not too bound up with ephemeral things, as the minds of workers are. The idler, then, is somebody who separates himself from his occupation: there are many people scarcely conscious of living except in the exercise of some conventional occupation – Robert Louis Stevenson
What to Do If you Happen to Fall in Love With Two Men at the Same Time
by Cucan Pemo
If you are finding yourself torn between two men, this can be a very tough time for you. You will have a lot of questions that you are going to have to ask yourself and take the time to carefully sort through them to figure out what is right for you. This is going to be something that you will have to address because it is not a healthy relationship to have.
You will have to decide if what you are doing is good for you. Is it possible for you to have a healthy and loving relationship with two men at the same time? Are you going to be able to choose one over the other? These are things that you have to think about and then you have to think about them some more. You can be in love with two men at one time, but it is not something that you can act upon without getting yourself hurt.
Top reasons why we can fall in love with two people at the same time
It is possible to fall in love with two people at the same time. When you find that you are having feelings for two people at the same time, this can be a very difficult time. You may be having some feelings of love in the same way for these two people. This is going to be something that you will have to lay out on the table in front of you so that you can see where your feelings are coming from.
It is possible to be in a loving relationship and still find yourself having feelings for someone else. This is completely normal and it may just be temporary. Maybe this other person has done something nice for you or has shown you some kind of interest for one reason or another. This may trigger some emotional feelings towards this person and you may not understand why or how you can stop them.
There may be two people that are so very different from each other but for some reason they both have caught your attention and you like them for separate reasons. This is possible and you will have to come to terms with which one is going to be better for you. You must think about your feelings for both people and why you are having these feelings.
How do I determine which one is the right mate for me?
You may wander how you are ever going to decide between the two people. You will have to figure out which person is right for you. This will take a lot of thinking on your part. You will have to figure out what it is you want to have in life. What type of life do you want and which person will be better for you. You will have to spend some time with both of the people so that you can better determine which person you have more of a connection with.
Attraction is the main reason why people want to be together. They may have some sort of physical or emotional attraction for the other person. When this is the case, you have to dig down deeper and find out if there is another reason why you are so infatuated with this person. You will need to spend time together talking and finding out about one another so that you can better determine who is going to be best for you.
How do I make a wise decision without hurting both of them?
If you think that it is best to be open with both of the people that you are attracted to, you may find that this will end both relationships. Some may not take the news that you are in love with two people very well and they may decide to make the decision for you by ending it. If this is the case, you may have some relief knowing that the problem has now been solved and even though it is over, you may feel a little more relieved. This feeling may be one that you have anticipated for a long time.
There are some people that just decide it is impossible to choose between the two and it is a wise choice to let them both go. This is going to be a hard decision to make; however, in some cases, it is the only possible outcome. You cannot string someone along and make him or her wait for you because you cannot make up your mind. You may have a strong connection with both partners, but you know that it is wrong and you have to do the right thing.
The main thing that you need to remember is that you have to do what is best for you. It is important to make sure that you have your best interest in mind. You need to put yourself ahead of anyone else so that you can have it all and make all of your dreams come true.
About the Author
Cucan Pemo is the author and publisher of Bring Back the Love of Your Life!, Attract A True Love Secrets, 500 Secrets About Men Every Woman Should Know!, 500 Secrets About Girls Every Guy Should Know! and \”You can Save your Relationship & Marriage\” (ebooks). For 8 months, she went through a painful experience of a failing relationship, and along the way discovered the secrets of creating that magical relationship which everyone desires. The secrets she learnt enabled her to bring back the love of her life, and she even continued using the same \”formula\” to create a fulfilling and harmonious relationship with her loved one. No one believes it is possible until she makes the impossible possible. On this journey, she learnt a lot about life, human nature, and relationships, and proceeded to teach and share the insights she had gained to those who come to her. She now writes regularly on relationship, marriage and family issues, sharing the tips and strategies on how to find true love, draw true love, keeping a true love, and even bringing back a lost love, no matter what type of relationship one is involved in. She is also a freelance writer on parenting, family and working tips and strategies at http://www.FamilyAndRelationships.com
Where we go in life is only limited by our own imagination.
Life can be really tough to exist in. Not only do you have to deal with your own worries and sorrows, there are the setbacks of others that also effect you.
What if I told you by changing your perspective from existing to living you can be free by simply the growth of your imagination. The way you see yourself in life is the way your life is seen.
If you want different you must first begin to think differently. Money, power and respect can be thrown at you however if your thinking of these things are still the same, all those things will surely pass away.
Remember that you are the mastermind behind your life and your limits are set by you. So set the bar against the limitless sky and live a free and authentic lifestyle.
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